Sue, You are not crazy. My suggestion to you would be to seek an adhesion specialist who can help you.
There are 3 adhesion specialist who maybe able to help you. Unfortunately the sorry news is, the more surgery you have the worst it gets. Surgery is only a temporary fix until the next time. I don't know of anyone who has had success on being adhesion free. I believe there is no such thing. I was told once by a surgeon that Adhesions are the worst to conquer, because of the enormous time you have to put in just to disect them all from all your organs that are effected by it. There are no easy answers, but another suggestion would be to seek a pain specialist and also start walking 15 min a day. You would be amazed how much this helps. Another would be to invest in a jacuzzi to help you relax. I hope this will help you. Dee