Re: Hard times

From: marianne bolding (
Wed Aug 8 13:37:37 2001

Rosie, where do you live? I'm 32 and can't have children. I very much enjoy the wisdom of my elders and age has never represented itself to me in any way as being a hinderence. People can relate to anyone if they choose to do so and have respect for people in general, and if as people we all never forget that we never stop learning...old from young and young from old. Everyone has something to offer. How is your hubby handling all this? I used to talk my hubbys ear off about everything I was learning. Think I drove him wacko. Love, Marianne --- Rosie <> wrote: > Marianne I wish I had a support network here too.
> It's so hard to hurt and
> even worse when you feel alone with it. I live out
> in the country and see
> noone but the coyotes for days at a time somedays.
> By the time my husband
> gets home from work I'm usually hurting and he gets
> to bear the brunt of me
> talking about it as other than the messages on this
> board I have noone to
> talk to about the pain, & fear either. It would be
> so nice if they had more
> local support groups for this so people could share
> face to face. It sounds
> like many of you are very young too. It must be so
> much harder when you are
> young and have children to care for too.
> Rosie

>> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "marianne bolding" <>
> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS"
> <>
> Sent: Wednesday, August 08, 2001 12:20 AM
> Subject: Re: Hard times
> > Sally, my only form of support is this board. I
> have
> > asked doctors about support groups...they just
> shake
> > their heads and say it's a good idea. Just don't
> know
> > how to find one...and what kind. You're right
> > though...I do need to find people locally that
> will
> > connect with me. Thanks for caring. Love,
> Marianne
> > --- Sally Grigg <> wrote:
> > > Dear Marianne, I'm sorry you are having such a
> hard
> > > time. Life is not easy. Do
> > > you have any kind of support group? Church, pain
> > > group, therapy group,
> > > friends, Someone to physically reach out and hug
> > > you. The board is great but
> > > life can be lonely when you're in real pain all
> > > alone even when you're
> > > surrounded by people. If they're not connecting
> you
> > > need to find ones who will
> > > connect. Sorry to sound so preachy, I'm only
> writing
> > > out of caring, Hope
> > > things get better soon, Love, Sally

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