Re: ok i really need your help my dad is dying this is soo hard please read!!!

From: Millie (
Thu Aug 30 20:23:28 2001

Colette, My Mom had heart bypass surgery in April of 1999. By May 17 of '99, she needed a feeding tube("peg tube") because she couldn't eat. They lied to us and said she was eating and that she'd be better. The surgeon's associate called me for the verbal o.k. to start the tube. She passed away in August '99, and I still have my sad, angry, and bitter days. Please hang in there, and take it from someone who knows. Love, Millie

>----- Original Message -----
From: "Colette " <> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS" <> Sent: Thursday, August 30, 2001 6:11 PM Subject: ok i really need your help my dad is dying this is soo hard please read!!!

> I know this is an adhesion board! i got a phone call today about my dad!
> Boy am i confused! He needs a G-tube?? I know its a feeding tube of
> sorts! Gosh i feel so guilty my dad is in st. rose hospital in NV and
> i'm in AZ and i can't do a thing for him! But i have to make decision
> about the g-tube which i'm waiting for a phone call from the dr.
> Just when i thought i was doing a little better1 Now i just think about
> it i start to water! Could someone let me know what a g-tube is?? I hate
> to ask but you guys are better than doc. I'm sorry i know i should
> stick to the subject but i need your help i don't know how to do this ?
> my mom is no help i called his brothers they are no help either! So i'm
> on my own with this huge decision and i have no one else to teurn too!
> What if i make the wrong decision? ok now i'm falling apart!
> Love you guys
> Colette

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