Re: To Diane/ recent surgery from Sally

From: Marianne Bolding (
Tue Aug 21 00:36:06 2001

Sally, I'm sorry to hear of your pressures. May you wake to many blue birds on your window sill. Just curious....who cleans all those rooms at your inn? You have a maid? Resorting to an old joke I think started by Nancy..."Where is that maid when you need her!" LOL Love, Marianne --- Sally Grigg <> wrote: > Dear Diane, I understand you have had laparoscopic
> surgery for adhesions
> just three weeks ago. I had the same thing on June
> 28th this year. I
> was still extremely sore after three weeks. I just
> got the video of my
> operation. Yes, they had a camera right in there
> through these little
> tiny holes. After I saw what they had to do, its no
> wonder I still hurt.
> That gets better with time. It's way too soon to
> make any judements
> about your operation's success. You have to heal
> first and that can
> literally take a few more months.
> As to the depression, everyone is different. Our
> bodies have gone
> through years of pain, followed by the outrage of
> surgery. It's no
> wonder we get depressed. There are also indiviudual
> life factors that
> are different for everybody. Sometimes, we've lost
> jobs or relationships
> or friends, because no one understands.
> I'm incredibly depressed right now. Now that it's
> been seven weeks, my
> husband wants the Inn cleaned up (ITS already clean,
> but our living
> space and the office are filled with piles because
> I've been in the
> fetal position for hours on end each day.) Well, now
> he wants it CLEAN
> and he wants it done now and he's yelling at me.
> So that's enough to make anybody, even someone who
> has been strong
> enough to make a successful business, while in
> agony, just about as
> depressed as you can be. I hope I didn't make you
> more depressed. But
> you are definitely not alone. We're here for you and
> we're not going
> away. So please write and we'll write back and I'll
> try to cheer up if
> you will. Remember, tomorrow is indeed another day,
> and things do get
> better. The sun comes out, the birds sing, someone
> does something nice
> for you. We care. Love and gentle hugs, Sally
> >

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