I am sorry to hear about your bad night last night. I know what it is like to want to spend time with your parents only to be disappointed. I will be lifting you up in my prayers. If there is anything else I can do, let me know.
Big hugs, Jenny
>From: twelsh1@hotmail.com (toni welsh)
>Reply-To: adhesions@adhesions.org
>To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS
><adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com>
>Subject: Family troubles
>Date: Sat, 24 Feb 2001 07:16:56 -0600
>
>I had a bad time last night, I hate getting mad at my father. I try to
>hise so much from him, he has enough to take care of my handicapped
>sister, and I had her last night. I do bowl on Friday night, and I
>should not have tried it lasy night, my gyn was glad to hear that I went
>back to it, I LOVE to bowl, but I had a bad day yesterday, my stomach
>felt like a brick in it, but I go on and do the things I like to do. I
>never see my dad much, and was looking forward to him coming down, he
>said he would be their at a certain time, and he was not there, he does
>drink alot when the guys go out and I know that, but he kept on saying
>he would be there to spend some time with me. I called my sister to see
>if he picked up her son, he has had him for 2 months, and she is much
>better now, and I get so aggravated that she never wants her boy at
>hime, totally depends on dad, and I got mad, and she told him, when he
>got to the bowling alley finally, he did not talk to me, I was so hurt,
>I sat there and cried.
>
>I do not tell him the troubles I have been having, he has to know, he
>was always there when I had my surgeries, and I do not want him to worry
>about me too, he ha d enough with my nephew, who is 11, and my sister,
>mentally retarde, who is 30 yeras old. I feel like that is enough to
>worry about. But when I tried to talk to him he got very angry, was
>drinking, but he does not understand I was looking forward to him coming
>to spend time with us. I get so tired of being hurt by family, and like
>I told my husband, at five oclock yesterday, I am tired of all htis
>hurting. I suffer when I bowl, but I need to do the things I enjoy.
>Life has to go on, or I would go crazy. I guess Ii am going to have to
>tell him why I was in such I bad mood, and I am tired of my sister
>causing trouble with family, and on top of it,she drives him nuts
>anyway, and he knows how much she lies, oh I am sorry it was just a bad
>day, and night, and this morning I wake up with tehh bad cramping, and
>when I get upset I know I am going to suffer the next day.
>
>Take care all
>Toni
>