Well meaning friends often ask ("this" being the pain that we
experience): "Have you seen a Doctor about this?", "Do you know what
caused this?", "Is it something you ate?", "Isn't there anything you can
take for this?", "Did you do too much and get yourself into this
situation?", and my LEAST favorite, "Is there anyone else that has this
problem? I haven't heard of anyone, but you."
not having a very good day with coping. Best friend and husband are
both more invested in how me being in pain "makes" them feel inadequate
because they can't make it better.....yet neither offers comfort. am I
to care for them? I can hardly sit up......