I am now remarried and when I had my boys the pain went away but now it is back with a vengeance and I am just praying that history doesn't repeat itself!!! I take each day as it comes and try hard not to get too down or be too hard on myself. This site has helped a lot as it helps me know I am not the only one suffering and that there are many people much worse than me. I also practice all the pain management techniques - distraction (play solitaire on the PC!), relaxation tapes, hot baths, gentle exercise, phone a friend.
Sorry there's no magic wand included but hopefully some supportive advice?! Hang in there and make good use of this site as a support network.
Very best wishes
Tracey xxx