Hi, I haven't met you yet, But it is nice to do so. You asked what we would do different so we wouldn't end up here. I have my response. I got here having my 3 beautiful children. I would never change having them, but I would go back to when I was nineteen and pregnant with my first child. When the OB told me that I had to have a c-section when I was 6 months pregnant, I would have went and got a second opinion. He never even gave me a chance to go through labor. So I have never even had more than a braxton -hicks contraction. He took that wonderful opportunity away from me. The magic of giving birth the way our creator meant. Who knows maybe I would have had to have it even with the second opinion. He didn't give me the chance for natural birth so the other OB's wouldn't either.
Take care, What would you do different, mind if I ask how you got here.
A new friend and fellow sufferer
-- Linda Garcia