I am so sorry that you have to put up with this. I wish you nothing but the best.
Lynn
>As most of you know i went to the obgyn last week that i was referred to
>and just like i knew he would say, there is nothing they could do for
>me. so i called my primary doctor back and told them that i needed to
>see them again. they told me to come in today as a work thru, meaning
>when the doc wasnt busy he would see me, which could take 1-4 hours.
>Being that whenever i go to the er i usually wait 10-14 hours, 1-4 would
>be a piece of cake.
>
>Well i went this morning and they saw me in an hour and a half. not bad
>at all i thought this is a good sign. went in to see the doc and told
>him what the obgyn said and he said okay. what do you want us to do. i
>told him i want surgery PLEASE, he said all you have to do is make the
>determination that you do INDEED want the surgery. I said wot part of
>this dont you understand I WANT THE SURGERY. he said okay sounds like
>you really want it...but you arent going to find anyone that will do it.
>i said well wot am i suppose to do then, live the rest of my life in
>pain??? he said no i will take care of you.
>
>here is a perscription of ibuprofen and vitamins. you will feel better
>with this. I said i have been taking vicodin and they havent been
>working, and you think this will work. he said trust me...they will
>work. I asked if he could maybe sign me up for pain management or
>something and he said there is no need, the ibuprofen will work for you
>and you wont have pain anymore. sigh
>
>so he starts pushing on my belly and i am SCREAMING and crying in pain.
>he pats me on the shoulder and said go home and take the ibuprofen, all
>will be better.
>
>i came home and told hubby thru sobs and tears that they told me to take
>this ibuprofen and to call in 2 weeks if they dont help, but they KNEW
>they would. he immediately got on the phone with the stupid state hmo
>and told them hey look my wife needs help, and has needed help since
>feb. when we had private insurance, they helped her within two weeks
>with surgery and the next day she was better. why cant you guys do
>anything??? they took all my info and said that they would call us back.
>they said if they cant find a doctor in this network to help me, then
>they will PAY for me to go to san diego, to see the doctor that did my
>last surgery.
>
>sigh, sorry guys...my spirits are very low right now, and i just needed
>to rant somewhere. i just want fixed..i just want to have NO MORE PAIN.
>i hope these aholes will get off of their ass and help me, but i am not
>getting my hopes up
>
>hugggz
-- A new friend