Re: Tired of seeing no new posts!!

From: Robin (rmasse2333@aol.com)
Fri Apr 12 17:31:52 2002


Dear All I am sorry about the post I left. I should have thought it through a little more before my fingers started flying over the key board! This board needs to be kept as up beat as possible!! I should have e mailed her personally to see if this was an attack on me before I spouted off. I will try to keep cool & remeber to smile before I write again. Again, sorry for the post, robin

At Fri, 12 Apr 2002, Robin wrote: >
>I really took affence to this post!!
>I am not sure what click you are talking about, but I don't think there
>is one. The reason some people have more posts than others is because
>they write more, not because of any click! I have not hear of anyone
>going to Germany for a hysterectomy, vaginal or other wise! Yes,
>sometimes we write to get sympathy from this "support group", but, we
>share what we are going through. It is tough not having any one that
>truely understands the pain and the frustration that the DAM_ adhesions
>cause!! We have NEVER judged anyone by the amount of time they have
>"suffered"!! Pain is Pain, whether you have had it for one day or one
>month, or 20 years! My first surgery for adhesions & the pain they
>caused was in 1985, with pain for almost a year before then from a
>C-section I had to have. I have NEVER WHINED to a Dr, either they
>beleive you or they don't. Either you get help, or you don't. I have
>been to every Dr that my insurance co will allow me to go to. There is
>not one that will do surgery on me. My personal Dr is very
>understanding about adhesions and the problems they cause, but can not
>operate, Most general practitioners don't do surgery. She has refered
>me to many, but most don't even think adhesions cause pain, if they
>think like that, they WILL NOT listen! The Drs in PA will do surgery,
>don't take most insurance & cost an arm & a leg. I, don't remember if
>you told anyone that you were having surgery or not. Usually if we are
>told, Many send thoughts & prayers. I am very sorry if that didn't
>happen for you. I am glad that you seem to have another support group,
>but many of us only have here. I feel this is primarily pointed at me,
>because I am trying to get to Germany and talk about to many.
>ROBIN
>At Fri, 12 Apr 2002, ejulian@attbi.com wrote:
>>
>>i know what you mean, it seems that there is a little click going on
>>here just like in high school. well for anyone who cares to read, had
>>surgery wednesday for laparoscopic assisted vaginal hyst. doctor did
>>use intercede barrier, and removed adhesions from previous surgery to
>>remove right ovary and tube. you don't have to go to germany to get
>>this operation done. if one takes the time and effort to research the
>>matter instead of trying just to get sympathy from those on this
>>"support group", one will find there are doctors in the USA who know and
>>do something about this. i hate to be so blunt, but i find that there
>>only a small minority of people who keep popping up on the message
>>boards. i guess i haven't been 'suffering' long enough for my name to
>>be part of the group. i will continue to do my own research and
>>continue to talk to my own support persons, but don't be fooled there is
>>hope here in the USA and if you really talk to your doctor instead of
>>whining to him, he will take notice and listen, course the sugestion of
>>legal action does help also.


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