Re: hi !!!!!!!!

From: Marianne Bolding (
Sat Aug 25 01:13:32 2001

Hi. My name's Marianne...haven't met you yet...but, you're story hit a spot with me. I've been having problems that I don't think are adhesions or hernia related...everything I've been reading points to my gallbladder. When I told my doc...he made me lay on the table and pushed a little on my stomach (which hurt)...and he don't have a gallbladder problem. Nice test doc. It seems he always gets me at the un-symptomatic points....the bloating, gas and belching, the "oh, so famous" fetal position. This doctor knows that everytime I felt something wasn't right....I was right. Surgery the first time, hernia the next. What happened to following through on a patient? They never look at the causes anymore...just treat the symptom. I have pain in the sides...sometimes left...sometimes right...sometimes in the middle of the belly button area. The liver is on the upper right side and the pain usually stays in that area. Kidney and Gall bladder issues can cause ab pain in various areas. I've vented enough....sorry for the humiliation you're enduring. You're not alone, though. Hugs, Marianne --- JAYNIE JARVIS <> wrote: > Hi all and Tammie, I have either been doing great
> and riding on the
> back of our bike or in bed with horrible pain !!!
> Today is a pain day.
> I tried to talk to my doctor about it yesterday but
> something weird was
> going on with her. I was her 1st patient of the day
> and I think someone
> had died at the Hospital where she had just come
> from. But then again
> she told me she was having troubles at home. First I
> insulted her by
> telling her I had to think of taking me off of the
> tylenol because of my
> liver. Out of 6 doctors, I had to think of it ! Then
> I said " You have
> to be your own doctor" That pissed her off. I said
> I have 6 doctors and
> no one thought about Jaynies liver. I was not
> pointing the finger at
> her. Then she went on about how she can not do
> anything for me. She has
> done all the tests and surgeries. Then I told her
> she didn't believe
> that the pain in my side was a partial blockage.
> That pissed her off
> too. Because I was telling her what she believed
> !!! I really expected
> to be in exray and maybe on some IV to stop pain and
> unblock my side.
> But no here I am taking as many pills as they say I
> can have, suffering!
> I could not stop crying all the way home and all
> day. I have been seeing
> this doc for 8 years ! I always tell ppl that she
> is my rock. I think
> she also said that she has no more to give. She
> dose not want to write
> a RX for my methadone !!She is very uncomfortable.
> She said that 2 of
> my pain clinic doctors patients have died ! Finally
> she told me to tell
> her where to send my file. and I accused her of
> wanting to get rid of me
> anyway !! Because I have been dumped by other docs.
> If you don't get
> better than they don't want to see ya. Especially
> the surgeon. This
> woman use to hug me good bye. Now when I touched her
> should she
> practically yelled at me to not touch her. And that
> she is making
> boundaries with her patients. That some have become
> friends or they
> think they are friends. And if I didn't think I was
> getting the best
> care then let her know where to send the records.
> At the end she told
> me to make a half hour apt. So I could tell her my
> ideas. Because she
> said she had run out of ideas and I told her I had
> some.By the time I
> get an apt. it will be over with in my side. I want
> to make sure it is
> not just an adhesion. They blame everything on my
> adhesions. I think
> it should be checked out !!!
> Don't you? I have a pain that comes and goes in my
> rectum. I had it
> checked out and it was an adhesion on the outside of
> my bowel. Now when
> I make love my ass hurts for 2 weeks. Great. But
> now I know it is not
> something else. It put my mind at ease, Kinda.
> Maybe this has nothing to do with my adhesions.
> Maybe it is a big cysts
> or tumor !! OR BLOCKAGE !! And if it is, then maybe
> they could give me
> something to relax my colon or something ?????
> I think I will call a "gastro bla bla" guy. You know
> who I am talking
> about? Or go get a ultra sound today or tomorrow.
> Does anyone else
> have extreme pains in there sides occasionally ? or
> butts ? Thanks
> Jaynie I miss the forum. Will try to come on more.
> love ya Tam !!!
===== -- Marianne Bolding "Nature Belongs to the Eyes That See It" Make international calls for as low as $.04/minute with Yahoo! Messenger

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