Re: problem with the boards

From: Jean Long (creative@enter.net)
Thu Jul 19 12:32:12 2001


Marianne, No....you didn't offend me at all! I don't expect any more sympathy than anyone else but you definitely didn't offend me in any way. I sympathize with "anyone" in pain, regardless if mine or theirs is worse, and I don't think you meant it otherwise either. It is no big deal to me or something needing dwelling on from anyone.....just "another" one of the "nit-picking" deals that occur on here from time to time.

No-one is perfect and not everyone thinks or says things alike all the time and that is their given right! We are not in school and require editing or chastising....SUPPORT and info. is what it is and should all be about (and correct info. I might add, not like I did in error-LOL). I have allot of differing thoughts and opinions so does it mean I don't belong here?

Just let it roll off and try again (LOL)! JEAN

Quote of the week: "Learn from the mistakes of others........ You can't live long enough to make them all yourself"

>----- Original Message -----
From: "marianne bolding" <ojowojo@yahoo.com> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS" <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com> Sent: Thursday, July 19, 2001 1:02 PM Subject: Re: problem with the boards

Jean...You are so right...that is a comment i made in an e-mail last night...a personal question to you....did I offend you when I said..."I know your problems are worse than mine"... I apologize if it does...I think you know I mean no harm...or belittlement. Marianne --- Jean Long <creative@enter.net> wrote: > The problem with the boards is no-one sees people's
> facial expressions or hears their tone of voice, let
> alone know their personality!
> JEAN
>
> Quote of the week:
> "Learn from the mistakes of others........
> You can't live long enough to make them all
> yourself"
>

>> ----- Original Message -----
> From: <mm.hammond@att.net>
> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS"
> <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com>
> Sent: Wednesday, July 18, 2001 11:13 PM
> Subject: Re: agree with Janet
>
> Colette Sweetheart,
>
> I have to agree with Janet. First off, I think this
> was
> a very simple misunderstanding....perhaps you are
> having
> a very bad day...the pain is out of
> control..whatever.
> We have to sit down and think about our actions
> before
> we jump into things that might explode in our faces.
>
> Helen D. is an absolute sweetheart. I am sure there
> are
> many times when while doing her best to assist us,
> she
> finds it necessary to handle things as quickly as
> possible. Often this may come across as cold and
> uncaring....but I guarantee you that this is not the
>
> case....it is just a matter of having so many things
> to
> do and very little time to do it in. I have been
> having
> this same problem with a friend of mine who is not
> on
> this list. I am finding myself explaining to this
> friend that I am not angry or upset. When I look
> back
> to find out why this person would form this opinion
> I
> find that the only thing it could be is
> misinterpreting
> my very brief messages into something cold and
> uncaring. I hope they understand that I am doing my
>
> best and hold no ill feelings towards them as I am
> sure
> Helen holds none towards you. Hope this helps you
> understand.
>
> Love,
>
> Karla
> > Dear Colette,
> >
> > Thank you, I appreciate your message.
> >
> > I would really like to ask you to work things out
> privately with people on
> > the board when your feelings are hurt or if you
> have conflicts or need to
> > clarify things that could simply be
> misunderstandings.
> >
> > We all have so much hurt inside already. I hate to
> see this lashing out at
> > people I love and care so much about. I am not
> trying to embarass you, or
> > hurt your feelings more, I would have sent this to
> you privately, but don't
> > have your e-mail address.
> >
> > Helen D. is the co-founder, and director of this
> blessing of a site that I
> > call HOME. She devotes precious time and energy to
> provide us all with
> > education, support and unity, in spite of the fact
> that she has suffered
> > with this disease for almost 30 years!!! If anyone
> should be allowed to
> > type in caps every once in awhile, it should be
> our dear Helen D.!
> >
> > Love and hugs,
> >
> > Janet
> >
> > > [Original Message]
> > > From: <anonymous@medispecialty.com (Colette )>
> > > To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS
> > <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com>
> > > Date: 7/18/01 7:56:44 AM
> > > Subject: Re: Settled in
> > >
> > > Hi Janet,
> > > So glad you are settled in with your kitties! I
> have 5 kitties, 2
> > > outdoor and 3 indoor i love them so much they
> are so comforting are'nt
> > > they? I can't send you a picture cause we don't
> have all that stuff yet!
> > > But when i do i will! I know the adjustment is
> going to be hard at first
> > > but i think you will like your space after
> awhile! Well you take care!
> > > Big painfree hugs your way!
> > > Love ya!
> > > Colette
> > > >
> > > >Hi everyone,
> > > >
> > > >Janet here...just wanted to let you know that
> the kitties and I are
> > > >happily settled into our new home now. Thanks
> millions for all of your
> > > >kindness andsupport through this time, it has
> made everything much more
> > > >bearable to have friends like you to lean on.
> I was thinking it would
> > > >help brighten my place alot to have some
> pictures of all of you to frame
> > > >and put up...in fact, I don't know why I never
> thought of this before!
> > > >
> > > >If so, please e-mail me so I can give you my
> address.
> > > >
> > > >Love you lots,
> > > >
> > > >Janet
> > >
> > > To remove yourself from the
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> >
> > --- Janet Karam
> > --- janetk7@earthlink.net
> >
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