So sorry to hear you are having problems. I know it is no laughing matter. I know trying to get one of those suckers out (that can be the size of a baseball) can leave one exhausted and yes very sore, as your rectum is not made to pass baseballs. I would consult a doctor regarding this, and what you can do to help pass these. My mother told me she has used a spoon before to get them out of there and she doesn't even have adhesions. Heavens, what we have to go through just to go to the bathroom. Hoping you will find a resolution to this problem.
Love,
Helen Chalmers