Re: Reply to me from Real Simple Magazine........

From: Millie (milliem@citlink.net)
Tue May 1 12:18:32 2001


Deborah, Your story is very well written. You have told your story as it should be told. There is nothing at all offensive in your letter!! This is how it should be told, as ARD is a real disease, with real pain!!! Good work, Deborah!! Millie

>----- Original Message -----
From: "J-M & Deborah Leclerc" <dasjejm@home.com> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS" <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com> Sent: Tuesday, May 01, 2001 1:45 AM Subject: Fw: Reply to me from Real Simple Magazine........

> Hello everyone,
> Please let me know if I have offended anyone in any of the following
emails. > What you read below is exactly what I have been trying to send to the
board > all day. I really was excited when I first contacted the magazine, and
then > when they replied. I just wanted to share it with everybody and see if
> maybe more of you could write to this magazine, I thought that they might
> then do a feature article on Adhesions. I have to go to bed now. It is
> 3:45AM and I am now seeing double.
> Let me know what you think.
> Sincerely,
> Deborah
>

>> ----- Original Message -----
> From: J-M & Deborah Leclerc <dasjejm@home.com>
> To: <adhesions@adhesions.org>
> Sent: April 26, 2001 12:03 AM
> Subject: Reply to me from Real Simple Magazine........
>
> > Hello everyone,
> > I wrote an email to "Real Simple" magazine a couple of weeks ago. I
have > > included the letter and their reply for you to read. I thought that
maybe > > they would do an article if more of us wrote to them. I think it is
worth > a
> > try. Let me know what you all think.
> > Love,
> > Deborah ( in Canada )
> > dasjejm@home.com
> >

>> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: <Letters@timeinc.com>
> > To: <dasjejm@home.com>
> >
> > Sent: April 25, 2001 4:48 PM
> > Subject: Your E-Mail to Real Simple
> > Dear Deborah,
> > Thank you for sending your story suggestion about 'adhesions'. We
> appreciate
> > that you took the time to write to us to share your ideas. Your
comments > > are important to us, and you can be assured that we will keep your
e-mail > > in mind for future issues.
> > Thanks again,
> > The Editors
> > Real Simple Magazine
> >
> > This is the letter that I sent:
> >
> > This is a "real" issue that is effecting "real" women from all around
the > > globe.
> > Here you will find women of "substance" and "strength" who are fighting
> for
> > a life 'free of pain'. We are fighting for our lives, for our families,
> and
> > for other women who given up or died without their stories being heard.
WE > > NEED YOUR HELP to reach women who are suffering alone, in silence.
> > I am writing on behalf of thousands of women around the world who
suffer > > from ADHESIONS. WE need to be heard. Many women don't even know what
> > "adhesions" are, so they suffer in silence because some doctor has told
> them
> > that their pain isn't real or that the tests didn't show anything so it
> must
> > be IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) which is just another way of saying
"I > > don't know what is wrong with you". Until last January when I found
the > > "International Adhesion Society" on the net, I too, suffered alone. My
> > problems began when I was 21. I had re-occurring ovarian cysts and
> > endometriosis. I was not given a choice when I had a full hysterectomy
at > > the age of 24. They told me that I needed this operation in order to
live > a
> > "normal" life. To date I have had 20 surgical procedures. The last 10
have > > been due to adhesions which formed because of the past surgeries. I
suffer > > daily with excessive vomiting, and excruciating pain. All due to
ADHESIONS > > that keep coming back and obstructing my bowel and digestive system. I
> have
> > been on various narcotics for the past 10 years. I am only 34. I beg
you > to
> > help "us" educate our doctors and reach out to those other women in the
> > world who suffer daily in silence. We have heard of women that have
taken > or
> > tried to take their own lives because they are fighting this disease
alone > > and they can't live with their pain anymore.
> > Please visit our web-site http://www.adhesions.org. and type in "adhesions"
for > > more inf. When at the site click on "The Adhesion Quilt". There you
will > > find stories just like mine from men, women, and children of all ages
from > > around the world who suffer with this disease.
> > A new clinic has opened in PA . I along with my surgeon (who is the
head > > surgeon at our hospital) here in Calgary, Alberta, are trying to get
down > to
> > this clinic to have surgery there and to learn these new procedures
that > the
> > doctors are using with great success.
> > Here is my story from the "Adhesion Quilt"......
> > My name is Deborah. I am 34 years old. I am the mother of three
children > > ages 16, 14, 12. I live in Alberta, Canada in the foothills of the
"Rocky > > Mountains". I love to hike, rock climb, telemark ski, and mountain
bike. > I
> > studied "Fine Arts" in university and I currently have a studio where I
> > design jewellery, sculpture, and paint.
> > I have had 20 surgical procedures since the age of 21.
> > The last 9 of 10 surgeries were due to bowel obstructions caused by
> > adhesions(gallbladder also removed). In '99 I underwent 3 surgeries,
the > > last one, for a bowel obstruction, was in Dec. I am now experiencing
> signs
> > of a (partial) bowel obstruction, severe vomiting, lower abdominal
> cramping,
> > and minor bloating. The only option presented to me thus far is yet
> another
> > surgery, something I would, needless to say, like to avoid.
> > In Jan 2000 I had to close my retail store/studio, due to poor health.
> The
> > store
> > had been open for only 2 1/2 years.I had saved and invested everything
> into
> > it. It had been my life dream to have my own business, sharing with my
> > clients my own work (pottery, paintings, and one-of-a-kind pieces of
> > jewellery)French linens, giftware from all over the world, and
antiques. > > We (my husband and I) had worked so hard to make that store a success.
> The
> > last year was terribly difficult for myself and for my family. I had
> > emergency surgery in June, which resulted in an 8 week hospital stay.
In > the
> > operating
> > room I was given an epidermal to be used for pain blocking for after I
> woke
> > up from the surgery. During this procedure the doctor punctured the
> "Dhura",
> > which resulted in severe 'spinal' head-aches when I awoke from surgery.
> The
> > first week in hospital I had to stay in bed and under go a "blood
patch" > to
> > stop the (spinal?) fluid from leaking. This resulted in having another
> > partial obstruction, and having to have NG tubes to stop me from
vomiting, > > then another tube to feed me. I left the hospital in late July, only to
> > return again to emergency on August 28,'99 (My Wedding Day!!!) with
> > incapacitating abdominal pain. I was given a 6 hour pass to get
married. A > > couple of days later I had my Gall Bladder removed (another 3 weeks in
> > hospital). November came and I was in hospital again with another
partial > > bowel obstruction. My surgeon did not think I would be strong enough to
> have
> > another surgery so soon, so I was in hospital with a NG tube and heavy
> > narcotics for 2 weeks. On Dec 07 I returned to hospital. Surgery was
> > performed but this time when I woke up my digestive system had stopped
> > functioning and my bowel went into severe spasms. I stayed in hospital
for > > almost 1 month, and was investigated by several "specialists". One so
> called
> > GI
> > "specialist" thought that I should have an IV put into my neck for 6
> months
> > to feed me. Another doctor suggested that a psychiatrist see me,.....
my > > mental state was now being questioned for.. "it was not possible to
have > so
> > much pain and require so many surgeries, just for adhesions... it must
be > in
> > my head".That was the "last straw"...those words almost broke me.
> > Some days I feel like I'm going crazy......I can't stand the idea of
going > > back to hospital, to be cut open again...I don't want all of those
> horrible
> > drugs put into my body. I want my life back! I want to be healthy for
my > > children, my husband, and for me.
> > In September my husband and I want to hike the "West Coast Trail", for
our > > "honeymoon" that we missed last year, because of my being sick. I need
to > > get strong and healthy for this!
> > I am desperately searching for any alternative or advice that may be
> > offered. Already, it is some psychological solace to have found this
> Society
> > and to find out that I am not alone!! Thank you!
> > UPDATE: May 3, 2000
> > Emergency Laparotomy
> > In less than 4 months adhesions returned covering my abdominal wall.
All > > loops of bowel twisted, and one loop, in the pelvis, of the small bowel
> was
> > completely twisted around over 180 degrees.
> > I am now 4 weeks post-op. I am in constant pain. The surgeon thinks the
> > bowel has twisted again.
> > Now what do I do?????
> > UPDATE: March 2001
> > I underwent my 20th surgical procedure on November 18,2000.
> > I am now, and have been since that last procedure, in extreme pain and
> > constant discomfort. I have been in contact with DR. Gerhart in PA and
I > am
> > presently trying to find a way to get to this clinic. I know that I am
in > > for a fight with the Health Care system here in Canada.
> >
> > P.S.
> > Please visit these other sites for more inf.
> > #1. http://www.generalsurgeryinfo.com
> > #2. http://www.adlap.com
> > The surgeons at the clinic in Scranton, PA are: DR.Gerhart, DR.Riche,
and > > DR. Redan
> > There is also a surgeon in Germany by the name of DR.Mathis Korell. He
has > > been studing "Adhesion Related Diseases" for the past 15 years and many
> > women from all over the world have travelled to him for surgery.
> >
>


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