Re: This is so scarey

From: stevie (selwood@netzero.net)
Sun Jul 2 16:10:25 2000


At Sun, 2 Jul 2000, Judy Lankes wrote: >
>At Sun, 2 Jul 2000, stevie wrote:
>>
>>I had a complete hysterectomy 3.5 years ago and I had a laparoscopy done
>>(6months after because of pain that started 3 weeks into recovery from
>>the hysterectomy)it didnt resolve the pain and since I have undergone
>>every test there is. My pain is mostly around the bladder and hurts
>>like heck when it is filling and several doctors assumed it was Ic even
>>though both the cystos I had were not done under general and both were
>>normal. My question is can adhesions cause pain when you push on the
>>bladder area? and it also is very painful when the vaginal anterior side
>>is pushed on. I also have a pulling pain when I bear down.This is all
>>so frightening thinking I will have to go through another surgery, and
>>then I see here so many women suffering with multiple surgeries, I was a
>>normal healthy 44 year old until a cyst on my ovary and a doctor who
>>thought because I was 44 that I had no choice but to have a
>>hysterectomy. The cyst was gone at the time of surgery. How many women
>>out there are scared into a surgery only to end up totally worse than
>>they started.I am not bashing doctors but if our female parts are so
>>easy to eliminate, why then cant adhesion prevention and information
>>about them be practiced more often? I was never informed on the risks of
>>adhesion formation and the complications after from them.
>
>Thank you Judy for your reply. It sounds as though youve been through alot. I only wished that 3.5 years ago I would have had a computer then, I have got alot of good information through the web. I had went to the library and got books on hysterectomies but everyone told me to take them back I would only scare myself more, that was my first mistake. I hope we are not living in unreality hopeing for something that will at least take us closer to the women we were before the surgery. I know we will never be the same weve been through too much, but all I am hoping for is relief from this pain to some degree. Thank you again for you reply, it does help to know Im not crazy and there is a reason for this pain. I am dreamercrow on aim
>--
>=====================================================
>Stevie, this is Judy from Southern California. I am a 48+ year old
>women with no more reproductive organs, history of adhesions, etc. 5
>surgeries in 20 years. Last surgery removed last ovary and tube, due to
>a cyst. Gyno surgeon say numerous adhesions, but didn't take them all
>'down', because there were too many, and they were 'translucent' anyway,
>which is a lot of bull, since adhesions get thicker/more fibrous and
>smaller over time.
>
>Adhesions can cause pain in the strangest places. Per my former pelvic
>floor massage/myofacial release therapist, there are adhesions around my
>psoas muscle (big muscle) and hip flexor muscle, which goes somehow
>through the gaps in pelvic bone, which cause lower back sciatica pain,
>on same side as abdominal pain. I have a lot of pain when bearing down,
>when trying to hold my urine whilst running to bathroom, while trying to
>"hold/grasp" husband's penis during intercourse. Sorry about being so
>graphic. Just wanted to qualify and relate my experience. Going on for
>4 years, am I insane or what?
>
>My opinion on medical community: A) They don't have the time to do
>research and/or their homework, and it's not life-threatening like
>cancer, heart attack, etc..
>B) I believe the adhesion lysis is such a complex, long drawn out
>surgical procedure, the it isn't cost-effective for them. ie: they book
>surgery rooms, nurses, anesthesiologists, etc. for a certain length of
>time with a certain "PunchList" of tools required. It's an assembly
>line of sorts. It costs them more money to do this kind of skilled,
>detailed work, and probably (just guessing), if you watch ER or Chicago
>Hope, the drs. and admins have meetings where they decide what and how
>many of each procedure they are going to do and what's the profit. The
>pharmaceutical companies are doing research into these new products to
>pump up their profits, but convincing the medical community and FDA of
>their 'efficacy' is another story.
>
>I guess we have to inform ourselves (thank God for the Web), since a lot
>of these 'professionals' aren't doing their jobs and informing us. Also,
>not everybody gets adhesions after surgery, and the only way to detect
>and/or eliminate them is through surgery. Catch 22...it sucks.
>
>So it's up to the individual to do the research, and luck or God or
>places like this website leads you to a source
>that can help.
>
>Personally, I'm waiting for a better gel/liquid or something that can
>give me a better chance of forming adhesions so quickly, and give me
>more leadtime without pain. Am I living in a fantasy world? Maybe, yes,
>and meanwhile my suffering affects every area of my life. But I'm not
>going to get 'cut again' until somebody will give me a chance of a
>possibility of success.
>
>I don't know if this will help you at all, except to let you know you
>are not alone.
>
>Judy
>
>--
>Judy in Southern California (I am 'BunkyBare' in AIM [aol instant messenger] and am '15259612' in ICQ, if you want to chat, rather than e-mail.
>

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