I'm glad you know that you are not alone anymore. Until my surgery next month I am on a no friuts and vegetables diet. I completely understand why you would not want to do this, as it is an extremely limiting and frustrating experience to eat sometimes. However, my doctor said that I could drink fruit juices (no tomato juice) and apple sauce (not too chunky). I find that I can tolerate both. Might be worth a try for you if you haven't already.
-- Rachel