Re: I'm new here and looking for support

From: Richard Hagen (rsh4799@worldnet.att.net)
Tue Aug 10 06:49:26 1999


Dear Melissa, My wife is going through the same pain. She has had some success with getting consensus with a doctor on her condition. But the pain doctor is being a jerk and won't cooperate. The surgeon is willing to work on her, but wants her to wait so he can do some other techniques. The surgeon is out of town(3 states away) so its not easy getting this all done. Meanwhile she is miserable. She had the seprefilm used last time but like you it didn't last long or was ineffective. You have to find ways to cope. Surgery seems to be the only answer. But it must be done so carefully. There are many on this forum that you can talk to. I just didn't want you to not have an acknowledement. I'm the spouse, not the sufferer.

>----- Original Message -----
From: MeLissa <lissamelwh@aol.com> To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS <adhesions@talk.obgyn.net> Sent: Saturday, August 07, 1999 1:59 AM Subject: I'm new here and looking for support

> Hello everyone. I'm 26 years old and have had a total hysterectomy and
> ooperectomy because of adhesions. I had my last surgery just a few
> months ago on April 27, 1999. But I've allready reached the point to
> where I can't go on any longer with this pain! Durring the April
> surgery, I had two groups of adhesions removed from my bowel that were
> causing a partial blockage. The surgeon used Interceed hoping to ward
> off any new one. Yet within a month, my pain came back. I've been
> trying my best to ignore it for the simple fact that I'm scared to death
> of having another surgery. But today, I can't cope any longer! The pain
> has suddenly intensified to the point that I spent most of today curled
> up in a ball crying. I can't even eat anymore for fear that the pain
> and pressure will get worse. I realize that this is long so I'll try to
> end this quickly. But I'm going back to the dr.s on Monday and am
> really looking for someone to talk too. To be quite honest, I'm scared
> to death that this will never end. I know that each surgery I have may
> cause more adhesions, but I also know that i can't survive with my bowel
> being blocked. This darn condition has allready solen all of my femal
> organs from me. I'm terrified of what it will take next.
>
> If you wouldn't mind helping me by being my friend, please email me. I'd
> love to support you in return
>


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