Re: Another view

From: Lisa (lilylover5555@aol.com)
Thu Jul 10 17:25:05 2003

Laynia, I wrote this post earlier(I thought) but it didn't show up so I thought I'd try again! Thank you for your post, it seems much more friendly! We need more of that here lately! I'm sorry I confused anyone with my posts..I always have and always will support Dr. Kruschinski!! What I was trying to say is I will support anyones' decision to seek help with whom ever they wish, I may not agree with their choice, but that choice is indeed theirs! I will always try to be supportive to everyone. I know I wasn't very clear on that, and I did try to clarify it, but maybe I made it worse?? I have tried to get my opinion across, but it is my opinion, and I'm trying to be careful! I AM NOT AGAINST ANYONE!!! Regardless of how they feel. I just had some major problems with the way things were being said, not so much what was said. I CERTAINLY WILL NOT AND HAVE NOT supported Beverly and some of things she has done!!! I also have major problems with things she has done, just as I had problems with others.I don't look at the board as it being so much Beverly(I know it's an aquired art!)but a place for patients to get the help, answers and support they so desparately need! That is my idea of what this board is for. I also was attacked by Bev in the same email that she attacked our sweet Sally!She certainly crossed the line on that one! And for what, did we deserve this??? We have always tried to be honest, helpful, and supportive of everyone, as it should be!! Sally did tell me she was leaving the board, call it wishful thinking, whatever, but I choose to believe she will be back...she has alot of friends and supporters here, hopefully a little time away will help! We all need to take a deep breath and calm down, many have been hurt,many have over-reacted, but we can all agree to help patients, can't we? WE all need to work together, and not make patients choose "sides" in this mess. I so wish we could all let this go, and get beyond this crap to the important issues!

At Thu, 10 Jul 2003, laynia Cortez wrote: >
>Lisa,
>I have talked to others. You did confuse a lot of people.
>You couldn't make up your mind which doctor you were
>for. We all know they can't all be the same as each other.
>Too many of us have jumped allover the states trying to
>find a good doctor. I am sorry if I hurt your feelings. But
>you were even against one of the women that had been
>telling about about Dr. Kruschinski. That is all I was talking about.
>You are still saying only your way is the best way. How can
>you stay and be a part of this when you speak about Sally
>and Beverly was the very one that said Sally was a liar.
>Sally is not a liar. She had to come on here and defend her
>self. That is not support. You say she only needs a break
>from all of this. I am going to write Sally and ask her if she is
>only taking a break. It has been a long break!
>Laynia
>
>>From: lilylover5555@aol.com (Lisa)
>>Reply-To: adhesions@adhesions.org
>>To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS <adhesions@dns.obgyn.net>
>>Subject: Another view
>>Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 10:41:00 -0500
>>
>>Hi Laynia,
>>I just saw your posts to Karla and Dawn. I had to speak up!
>>You are totally mistaken when you say that all the advocates for Dr.
>>Kruschinski have left the board. Only 2 have, and Sally needs a break
>>from all this, I so hope and pray she'll be back. She has alot of
>>friends and supporters here, and we all want her back when she has had
>>some time to relax! Sally was basically attacked for no reason, as this
>>has all gotten out of hand!She needs the time away right now...who can
>>blame her?
>>There are many more of us that support Dr. Kruschinski that still read
>>the board and post ocassionally, but with all the rules it's been
>>hard..I don't want to name names(as much as I would like to, they don't
>>need to be dragged into all of this, publicly) but I'm sure they
>>wouldn't mind if you ask me in a personal email who they are, and I
>>don't think they would mind you contacting them to hear what they have
>>to say ! There are about 12(?) or so that remain a part of this board...
>>so... the reason I stay more involved on this board is 1- because it
>>holds a special place in my heart, it saved my life! 2- because I know
>>how many are suffering, and look to this board for help 3- someone needs
>>to keep Dr. Kruschinski's name and reputation here on this board for
>>all the new people that come and want that information...WE DO WHAT WE
>>DO FOR THE PATIENTS!!
>>I'm sorry I confused you with my posts, I was trying to let others know
>>where I am at this point in my life...everything is out there as far as
>>my situation goes. That's all I can do
>>I think you have gotten some information from a few, but you need to
>>look at the bigger picture, and find out as much as you can before
>>jumping on someone's band wagon. TALK TO OTHERS, see what they have to
>>say!
>>Lisa
>>

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