Before my surgery on 2/14 I too had pain really bad during sex. It got to the point where I did not have sex from my wedding night 8/3/02 until this past Friday (6 weeks after my laprascopic surgery). I can tell you I know what you are going through. I was not on any pain meds two weeks before my surgery, due to my PCP thinking I was a drug seeker. There is a doctor in Germany that can help. I got my relief with DR Gerharrt & DR Reich here in Scranton Pa. I work for a health system & had to go out of that system to get relief. You can go to adlap.com & take DR Gerhart's questionnaire to see if he can help. I know he is on the other side of the country but it might be worth it. Good luck to you. Feel free to email me @ any time. My email address is on the quilt page,
Hugs-prayers & pain free moments to all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Patti Grey Wolf