Re: went to court
From: toni welsh (twelsh1@hotmail.com)
Mon Mar 10 20:47:54 2003
At Tue, 4 Mar 2003, Tish wrote:
>
>Dear Toni..
>I feel so bad for you girl..i just recently finished up all the details
>in a nasty nasty divorce...3 years to the month..from the day he told me
>that he was leaving because he could not deal with all of the junk that
>was happening to me medically...this from the man that vowed before God
>to have and to hold in sickness and in health til death do us part...
>At first i just thought i would lay down and die..then i got mad..and
>then i decided to get even...well since he already had a new love in his
>life..and seemed quite happy..there was only one way to get even..and
>that was to hurt his wallet..hehe and thats what i did..i went to court
>and i asked for the highest amount of alimony that i could get...and i
>was awarded just that..and it added up to more than half of what he made
>every month..hehehe..plus i asked that he would have to keep me on his
>medical insurance until the end of the 4 yr period of time that i was
>awraded the alimony for...
>So it was like haha i got you back now bud....but nothing could help me
>feelbetter really...it took months before i ever even felt like a human
>being again...but i did get better and the pain finally stopped..and i
>got up and moved on to bigger and better things...and now i can say that
>even sticking it to my ex the way i did ..didnt really help me feel
>better cause im not a mean person..but at least he wont be wining and
>dining his new love for a while cause im getting all his money haha.
>But you just need to keep your head up girl..it will get better honest
>it will.
>And if ya need a shoulder to cry on or an ear to vent to..im always here
>girl..email me at cookietish@earthlink.net or write me here...ok
>Your in my prayers and thoughts..
>hugs and love
>Tish
Hi Hon, thank you for emailimg me the ony thing is that we signed
agreement he is giving me 18,000 dollars wgen the divorce is final and I
get 200.00 a week for a year from hte time it is over, I do not have a
lawyer cannot afford it so I signed the agreemenet he drinks too much
now! I was yold that the law will not let him cover me after we are
divorcd and I have to work now, it hurts some time but I cannot be home
alone , I will try ti email tomorow worked today and I am tired!
LOVE<
TOni