I sincerely hope that all will be well. There are lots of poems and Bible sections that tell us to do what we are able and those things we can not fix, to let go and be calm about them.That doesn't mean you don't care, but if there's nothing you can do, express sympathy and give hugs, but don't beat yourself up over what can't be changed. Please, dear one, we love you. Find that spot in youself where all is at peace and try to be there for a few mintes a day. With all my prayers, Sally Grigg