Chantale,
I don't know any way to control pain outside of using narcotics. Don't you
have anyone to help with your kids, Your body will adjust to the meds with
time. Who will watch over your kids if you have surgery. Surely they can help
you a little. I had to get around with doing very little since july of last
year and my kids did all they could to help but they are 12 and older. My
husband is my post, the rock that has held me and kept me sane along with my
friends here.
Good Luck to YOu,.
Lillian