Re: Pain Physical and Emotional

From: Colette (luckylady379@aol.com)
Sun Sep 9 09:11:06 2001


Hi JO Your so right! I'm going to my doc. on Mon. to see if she can help me its my first time since my insurance changed! So i hope she can give me something and i'm sure they will want to run test(whatever)! Well guess what my mom and i booked a flight to Las Vegas for the 15th of Sept. next sat. and we will return on the 17th in the evening! Were both going so we can tell him good-bye and let him know that its ok now! Plus the reason for staying on mon. because its a business day and we figure out what to do when he does die and whatever paper work if necessary! Well i'v never been to Las Vegas i wish it weas on better circumstances! But at least i'll get to see all the pretty lights my mom say's its reall pretty! Now i need this darn doc to work with me! Jo i hope everything works out for you too! I love you take care Colette >
>Hi Colette,
>
>I can relate to you and the physical & emotional pain you are
>experiencing right now. I have been sitting in the same boat for the
>last two weeks, thanks to my youngest brother.
>
>Be comforted by the fact that all of your actions and decisions have
>been in the best of intensions for your dad. I would suggest that you
>see your family doctor and explain your circumstances, you need someone
>to support you, and look after your sanity & your health!
>
>I have included my doctor in my family crisis, and she has been a font
>of support and understanding, as well as the practical.....by this,
>making sure that I have the means to treat my increase in pain due to
>the stress and tension I am experiencing while dealing with our family
>crisis.
>
>My thoughts, prayers & love are with you my friend, talk to you
>dad....(Have a good old chat to him in your head.....you will know what
>his response would be in a conversation...use it to comfort yourself).
>Remember that he loves you & trusts you, that is why he sought your help
>before it got to this point.
>
>((((((((((((Colette)))))))))))))))
>
>from your aussie pal, Jo
>
>At Fri, 7 Sep 2001, Colette wrote:
>>
>>I everyone i'v notice that some of are ladies are not here! Lynda and
>>marrianne where is everyone! But welcome to all the new people!
>>I got news about my dad he is bleeding internally he has no feeding tube
>>i really hope i'm not killing him! My mom and i are going to fly to las
>>vegas next sat! Is there anyone on the board from Las Vegas? My dad is
>>in Henderson Nv which i believe is'nt far! Just trying to find the
>>cheapest airfare!
>>I cry all day its so hard! And now my leftside hurts sooo bad this start
>>about a week ago now its getting worse! I did go to the dr's but they
>>forgot to make the appt.So now i have to wait until Mon. If i can! It
>>feels like a 61/2 on the pain scale i can't do anything right nowits on
>>the leftside but runs across my middle it feels like a knife ripping my
>>insides! If its not my dad its me i cry all day why me and why now i
>>need to feel good so i can see my dad! Stupid dr's anyhow gosh so now i
>>sit here all weekend unable to eat in pain no pain meds and being a
>>first time patient i can't get any ohh yaaa!! And crying and praying my
>>dad won't die before next sat! While is'nt life grand LOL!! Everything
>>seems to happen at once! The funny thing is that the pain is'nt in 1
>>area so its hard to pin point!
>>I could go to the ER but i need $100 co-pay which i don't have they
>>waive it if i'm in the hospital for more than 24 hrs gee maybe i could
>>go nuts and begg them to keep me god knows i have enough problems there
>>has to be a way! Well thanks for letting me vent its been an awful week!
>>Love you guys!
>> Colette

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