Hi JO
Your so right! I'm going to my doc. on Mon. to see if she can help me
its my first time since my insurance changed! So i hope she can give me
something and i'm sure they will want to run test(whatever)!
Well guess what my mom and i booked a flight to Las Vegas for the 15th
of Sept. next sat. and we will return on the 17th in the evening! Were
both going so we can tell him good-bye and let him know that its ok now!
Plus the reason for staying on mon. because its a business day and we
figure out what to do when he does die and whatever paper work if
necessary! Well i'v never been to Las Vegas i wish it weas on better
circumstances! But at least i'll get to see all the pretty lights my mom
say's its reall pretty!
Now i need this darn doc to work with me!
Jo i hope everything works out for you too! I love you take care
Colette
> >Hi Colette, > >I can relate to you and the physical & emotional pain you are >experiencing right now. I have been sitting in the same boat for the >last two weeks, thanks to my youngest brother. > >Be comforted by the fact that all of your actions and decisions have >been in the best of intensions for your dad. I would suggest that you >see your family doctor and explain your circumstances, you need someone >to support you, and look after your sanity & your health! > >I have included my doctor in my family crisis, and she has been a font >of support and understanding, as well as the practical.....by this, >making sure that I have the means to treat my increase in pain due to >the stress and tension I am experiencing while dealing with our family >crisis. > >My thoughts, prayers & love are with you my friend, talk to you >dad....(Have a good old chat to him in your head.....you will know what >his response would be in a conversation...use it to comfort yourself). >Remember that he loves you & trusts you, that is why he sought your help >before it got to this point. > >((((((((((((Colette))))))))))))))) > >from your aussie pal, Jo > >At Fri, 7 Sep 2001, Colette wrote: >> >>I everyone i'v notice that some of are ladies are not here! Lynda and >>marrianne where is everyone! But welcome to all the new people! >>I got news about my dad he is bleeding internally he has no feeding tube >>i really hope i'm not killing him! My mom and i are going to fly to las >>vegas next sat! Is there anyone on the board from Las Vegas? My dad is >>in Henderson Nv which i believe is'nt far! Just trying to find the >>cheapest airfare! >>I cry all day its so hard! And now my leftside hurts sooo bad this start >>about a week ago now its getting worse! I did go to the dr's but they >>forgot to make the appt.So now i have to wait until Mon. If i can! It >>feels like a 61/2 on the pain scale i can't do anything right nowits on >>the leftside but runs across my middle it feels like a knife ripping my >>insides! If its not my dad its me i cry all day why me and why now i >>need to feel good so i can see my dad! Stupid dr's anyhow gosh so now i >>sit here all weekend unable to eat in pain no pain meds and being a >>first time patient i can't get any ohh yaaa!! And crying and praying my >>dad won't die before next sat! While is'nt life grand LOL!! Everything >>seems to happen at once! The funny thing is that the pain is'nt in 1 >>area so its hard to pin point! >>I could go to the ER but i need $100 co-pay which i don't have they >>waive it if i'm in the hospital for more than 24 hrs gee maybe i could >>go nuts and begg them to keep me god knows i have enough problems there >>has to be a way! Well thanks for letting me vent its been an awful week! >>Love you guys! >> Colette