However, property management is not a touchy, feely, feel good type of work, its all about money and things breaking down as you know. So maybe your co-workers were hired because they were the kind of people who can't get emotionally involved easily. That's a plus in property management. I did it for awhile and hated it, especially when someone had to be evicted for non-payment of rent. I'm way too sensitive for that. You may be too. So don't expect "good vibes" from your peers, they not only don't know your pain, they may not even care if they knew. Sorry to be so blunt.
And you don't sound cranky to me, you sound like someone who has been through a lot and life is hard. So be nice to yourself, even if no one else will be nice to you.
We're here for you. Love, Sally Grigg