Re: problem with the boards

From: marianne bolding (ojowojo@yahoo.com)
Thu Jul 19 11:59:53 2001


Jean...You are so right...that is a comment i made in an e-mail last night...a personal question to you....did I offend you when I said..."I know your problems are worse than mine"... I apologize if it does...I think you know I mean no harm...or belittlement. Marianne --- Jean Long <creative@enter.net> wrote: > The problem with the boards is no-one sees people's
> facial expressions or hears their tone of voice, let
> alone know their personality!
> JEAN
>
> Quote of the week:
> "Learn from the mistakes of others........
> You can't live long enough to make them all
> yourself"
>

>> ----- Original Message -----
> From: <mm.hammond@att.net>
> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS"
> <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com>
> Sent: Wednesday, July 18, 2001 11:13 PM
> Subject: Re: agree with Janet
>
> Colette Sweetheart,
>
> I have to agree with Janet. First off, I think this
> was
> a very simple misunderstanding....perhaps you are
> having
> a very bad day...the pain is out of
> control..whatever.
> We have to sit down and think about our actions
> before
> we jump into things that might explode in our faces.
>
> Helen D. is an absolute sweetheart. I am sure there
> are
> many times when while doing her best to assist us,
> she
> finds it necessary to handle things as quickly as
> possible. Often this may come across as cold and
> uncaring....but I guarantee you that this is not the
>
> case....it is just a matter of having so many things
> to
> do and very little time to do it in. I have been
> having
> this same problem with a friend of mine who is not
> on
> this list. I am finding myself explaining to this
> friend that I am not angry or upset. When I look
> back
> to find out why this person would form this opinion
> I
> find that the only thing it could be is
> misinterpreting
> my very brief messages into something cold and
> uncaring. I hope they understand that I am doing my
>
> best and hold no ill feelings towards them as I am
> sure
> Helen holds none towards you. Hope this helps you
> understand.
>
> Love,
>
> Karla
> > Dear Colette,
> >
> > Thank you, I appreciate your message.
> >
> > I would really like to ask you to work things out
> privately with people on
> > the board when your feelings are hurt or if you
> have conflicts or need to
> > clarify things that could simply be
> misunderstandings.
> >
> > We all have so much hurt inside already. I hate to
> see this lashing out at
> > people I love and care so much about. I am not
> trying to embarass you, or
> > hurt your feelings more, I would have sent this to
> you privately, but don't
> > have your e-mail address.
> >
> > Helen D. is the co-founder, and director of this
> blessing of a site that I
> > call HOME. She devotes precious time and energy to
> provide us all with
> > education, support and unity, in spite of the fact
> that she has suffered
> > with this disease for almost 30 years!!! If anyone
> should be allowed to
> > type in caps every once in awhile, it should be
> our dear Helen D.!
> >
> > Love and hugs,
> >
> > Janet
> >
> > > [Original Message]
> > > From: <anonymous@medispecialty.com (Colette )>
> > > To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS
> > <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com>
> > > Date: 7/18/01 7:56:44 AM
> > > Subject: Re: Settled in
> > >
> > > Hi Janet,
> > > So glad you are settled in with your kitties! I
> have 5 kitties, 2
> > > outdoor and 3 indoor i love them so much they
> are so comforting are'nt
> > > they? I can't send you a picture cause we don't
> have all that stuff yet!
> > > But when i do i will! I know the adjustment is
> going to be hard at first
> > > but i think you will like your space after
> awhile! Well you take care!
> > > Big painfree hugs your way!
> > > Love ya!
> > > Colette
> > > >
> > > >Hi everyone,
> > > >
> > > >Janet here...just wanted to let you know that
> the kitties and I are
> > > >happily settled into our new home now. Thanks
> millions for all of your
> > > >kindness andsupport through this time, it has
> made everything much more
> > > >bearable to have friends like you to lean on.
> I was thinking it would
> > > >help brighten my place alot to have some
> pictures of all of you to frame
> > > >and put up...in fact, I don't know why I never
> thought of this before!
> > > >
> > > >If so, please e-mail me so I can give you my
> address.
> > > >
> > > >Love you lots,
> > > >
> > > >Janet
> > >
> > > To remove yourself from the
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> >
> > --- Janet Karam
> > --- janetk7@earthlink.net
> >
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