Even though I am a newbie, it seems obvious (to me) by the very nature of our problem (pain pain pain) that sometimes anger will rear its ugly head. But the pain is no one here's fault!!!!! We are all in the same boat.
If we can avoid pointing fingers, we can use even our anger as a tool to inspire/motivate us to get out there and make a difference. Sometimes after a great outburst I see things that I didn't notice before. Adrenaline stimulates thought processess I thought I lost years earlier <G>.
Anger can be good, pointing fingers and hurting people is never good. So let's keep from attacking people personally or being so sensitive others feel they can't vent when they need to...with that said, lots of good has come from this but maybe it is time to move forward now.
We are all here because we want to be, and the light at the end of the tunnel is NOT an oncoming train, after all...<VBG>
A very happy, pain-free Monday evening to all!
Love,
Lynda M. in AZ