Welcome to the IAS board...glad you found us, and thank you for sharing your story. Good that you have a wonderful family to support you, it helps so much to be in a loving home.
Get some of your favorite ice cream or mush up a couple of avocados...I know it's hard keeping the weight on...try to be sure to drink Ensure or some sort of meal replacement drink several times a day so that you won't end up in the hospital again for lack of nutrition.
I hope you will do some research now that you have found the IAS site, there is tons of helpful information in the message archives.
Love,
Janet