Re: delicate subject

From: jackie burgess (jackie@k9paws.fsnet.co.uk)
Fri Jan 19 05:35:15 2001


Hi Liz, just thought i would respond to your email in regards to painful sex. I find that it is painful during BUT more so AFTER the act so much so that i usually end up vomiting afterwards, my gp informs me that this is due to the nerve endings being the same ones as the ones that supposedly make IT enjoyable,not much consolation i know, it has now got to the point where i have to inject an anaeasthetic called Instigel UP THERE, five minutes before the deed commences, i have to laugh as usually i end up crying because I cant even have sex with my husband with out being a failure, my self esteem is really low at this point. What makes me angry is that if i was a man and i was impotent(sorry to be detremental to men) then i think that i would get all the help and support VIAGRA from the medical establishment. but for us poor women we are either frigid or neurotic so we cant enjoy sex.I have even been asked do you think you need to see a sex therapist?My answer, NO i just want to enjoy what should be a pleasure, is that so much to ask, Why cant you see that the pain is physical Not emotional???? The trouble is I do enjoy sex with my husband i just dont like the after effects, which can put me in bed for days. Sorry to be so direct but this issue is not discussed openly enough and it is a fundamental part of any healthy relationship with our partner. hope this helps to know your not alone by a long shot

kindest regards

jackie B England

>----- Original Message -----
From: Liz <ljuzwiak@rochester.rr.com> To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com> Sent: Friday, January 19, 2001 3:12 AM Subject: delicate subject

> Hi Everybody
> I have been reading some postings and I know this is a delicate subject,
> but I have noticed that some people have been mentioning the pain from
> having ses, I would like to know if the pain that you experience is
> during or after, myself I know that the pain seems to get worse after?
> Just would like to have some feed back. Thanks you are all in my
> thoughts and prayers.
> Love liz
>
> --
> Hi
> I to have alway's had it on my left side, I figured if I could just remove
the left side of me I would be fine, why I feel it more on one side verses the other, but think of it in a positive way, it could be are left and right that we feel it, (lol), I know this is not funny but we have to try to find some humor in all this or we will be just miserable, thank- god for this sight and all the wonderfull people that are here, God bless. > The Adhesion Warrior
>


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