Re: Guidelines For Adhesions/ (Marla, I thought in case you delet
From: LNewman@milbank.com
Tue Jun 13 12:25:23 2000
Marla, I am so sorry to read that you are leaving the forum just because
some people "acted out" in full view like this. I am sure you read my
response before -- this kind of stuff just scares new people away, and
considering all the pain and suffering that is going on out here, it would
have been much easier on the rest of us if this display bounced back and
forth between the parties involved, not the rest of us. Again, I apologize
on behalf of the group and the individuals that have made you leave. Know
that a large part of you will vanish back into the darkness without
conversation and a connection with people with the same problems. Please
rethink your decision and if you really feel strongly that it is time for
you to move on, then you must follow your heart. I hope though, that this
incident that drove you away will not be repeated by you or anyone else in
the group, as this will stand out as the one reason people hate to ask for
help or just talk through their pain. People have finally found a place to
go -- PLEASE don't spread this stuff around and if someone says something
that you do not like or isn't true (and it will affect the rest of us if it
is medically incorrect), remember you can (and should) go directly to that
person and hash it out. This is NOT the place for this sort of thing; I
don't care who was right or wrong. Work it out between yourselfs. Know one
more thing Marla, you may always right to me for support!
Yours in Christ, LauraN
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